Female ejaculation (also known colloquially as
squirting
or gushing)
refers to the expulsion of noticeable
amounts of clear fluid by women from the paraurethral
ducts
and/or urethra during orgasm. The exact
source of the fluid is debated,
although some researchers believe it originates from the Skene's gland.
There are no standards or rules for this occurrence. It may appear
as incontinence or urinating during
sex, specifically during orgasm. Or in some women's cases, they have
always been "very very wet"
during arousal and climax.
Here are a few tips:
Empty your bladder first. The
feeling just
before ejaculating is
similar to the feeling you have when you have to pee, but you want the
urge to come on as a result of arousal and not a full bladder.
Practice in a comfortable
place. This
suggestion is very
important so that you are relaxed and ready when
the feel the urge to "release". A few places to try to
practice may be in the bath or while sitting on the toilet. The main
thing is to drop your apprehensions and literally "go with the
flow"!
Usually ejaculation will come
on as a result of
stimulating the paraurethral glands
and/or the g-spot (urethral
sponge).
Stimulating the g-spot for
any length of time
will be
easiest to do with a dildo, insertable toy or vibrator.
Any toy that is firm, or one
that is curved
for g-spot stimulation will do. Use a lot of clitoral stimulation,
but also stimulate your
urethra by massaging inside the top of your vagina
both around the
opening and inside a few inches. Many women find urethral stimulation
very pleasant in and of itself. Keeping up the clitoral stimulation you
may also want to try and stimulate the g-spot
.
Vary the strokes and the
pressure and
experiment with
what feels good. As you are doing this you may feel the urge to urinate
(along with
feeling very excited and hot!). This happens
just prior to ejaculating. At this point as we said before, just "go
with the flow" and let it all out.
Remember,
as with all matters of sexual response and
behavior:
try it... if you like it, do it again!
If you don't
like it,
don't do it anymore!
The Octu-pussy Glass G-spot
toy works best when half-sitting upright with legs spread apart and
relaxed. Explore with the tip, holding the "tail" like a handle on a
mug, then slide the tip in slowly with lubricant. It's designed with
plenty of "sensory" nubs and perfectly tilted for G-Spot stim, too!
If you choose to try it anally, the doggy-style position, prone laying
on the edge of a bed or straddling a pony bench will give you the best
angle for insertion. Vaginally or anally, it's girthy, so you will know
it's there!
Since
this is a Pyrex [Borosilicate] glass toy, there is no need to worry
about cleaning, because any cleanser or cleaning method will do the job!
You can boil it, put it in the dishwasher, or just use an
antibacterial soap and rinse with hot water! Whatever works best for
you.
Store for safe keeping in its original box.
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From "Better Sex
for Women" by Dr. Mia Rose
Loud
Oragsms: Using your Voice for your
Best Orgasm Ever
Loud orgasms are powerful orgasms that
occur when you
engage your voice with deep belly sounds when climaxing. The more you
let go and the more vocal you become during lovemaking, the better your
chances of having your best orgasm ever.
Allowing themselves the pleasure of moaning
orgasms can sometimes be
really difficult for women. Shyness and feelings of insecurity can
contribute to staying silent between the sheets. The irony is that men
generally find vocal women a real turn-on and simply love their
partners to get loud.
The
free flow of this energy is essential to feeling more
pleasure. Some women even report spontaneous orgasms, multi-orgasms and
female
ejaculation when they allow themselves to make deep belly sounds
while arousal is building.
If you're feeling particularly vulnerable
around this
issue, practice making sounds during solo sex first. Breathe deeply
into your belly through-out self-pleasure. Focus on low and deep tones
as they come from way down in your body cavity and allow the best
orgasmic response to come forth. With practice you will find that the
energy of loud orgasms vibrate your genitals and this energy moves
through-out your entire body.
When you have succeeded in improving the
quality of your
orgasms during solo sex, give yourself permission during intercourse to
moan, hum, groan, sing and shout your way to ecstasy and bliss.
Your lover will thank you too!
Vagina
secrets you never knew
They're strange and wondrous things, female fiddly bits. Not only do
they offer women great pleasure, they also have the capacity to put her
through enormous pain. While many of us have taken care to learn a
little about our own or our partner's vagina, there's no doubt that
there are still a few things we could all learn. Here are just some of
them:
The vagina is self-cleaning
It's a niftily designed little outfit down there. Whether after
menstruation or sex the vagina actually cleans itself out through
secreting a special saline and mucous solution. In fact, the vaginal
ecosystem is a delicate one that shouldn't be tampered with - so avoid
putting heavily scented soaps or creams up there. Even douching with
water can cause problems. Rather, use an unscented, pH-balanced vaginal
wash to keep things smelling clean down there and treat your vagina
with the respect it deserves - it knows what to do.
Vaginal juice is
better than man-made moisturizer
Your vagina secretes a really amazing component called squalene which
keeps your vagina elastic and moist. Interestingly, squalene is used in
cosmetics because of its great moisturizing quality and because it
doesn't leave the skin feeling greasy.
An orgasm is a good
painkiller
Have a mild headache? Then what are you waiting for? Having an orgasm
will work wonders to drive the pain away because it acts as an
analgesic meaning that it helps make the pain disappear without that
numbing effect.
Besides the G-spot
Oh, we know it could be there, but so far, there's been very little
conclusive evidence. Instead, focus on stimulating the clitoris and
A-spot which is also situated inside her, but higher up - just opposite
the cervix.
What's your flavor?
The fluids of your vagina tend to be influenced by what you eat. A
healthy vagina shouldn't smell particularly strong, but might take on
the flavor of your last meal. If that happened to be asparagus, then
you're pretty much guaranteed to have a rather interesting smell down
there, while the general rule is that eating pineapple tends to give
your vagina a pleasant taste and smell.
It can fall out!
Yes, ladies and gentleman, ladies' fiddly bits can also go south when
the going gets rough. It's called a vaginal prolapse and occurs when
the uterus, fallopian tubes, ovaries and part of the vaginal canal move
downwards from their original place in the pelvis. Sometimes, part of
the vaginal canal can protrude from the vaginal opening. It can occur
to women who have had hysterectomies or have undergone traumatic
childbirth. In extreme cases, surgery might be necessary, but often
pelvic floor exercises are prescribed to try and help pull everything
back into place naturally.
Women can ejaculate
Yes, the vaginal squirt is not the stuff of myths. During arousal women
produce fluid which helps lubricate the vagina and make it easier to
have intercourse. A build-up of this fluid at the time of orgasm can
result in its expulsion as her vagina contracts in orgasm - ta-da! The
female orgasm in a nutshell.
It gets longer when
aroused
While the length and size of the vaginal canal varies, the average is
around seven to 10 centimetres when not aroused. During arousal, the
vaginal canal lengthens sometimes as much as double making sex a lot
more comfortable and pleasant for both the woman and her partner.
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